Wednesday, September 5, 2018

Smushed in a Minibus

In the U.S., I have always lived in a stand-alone house with my family. I have always had a front and a back yard. I have a college degree and am working on another, but I never moved into a dorm, choosing instead to stay with my family and use the saved money for traveling to do ministry. When I moved to Lavender Hill, I left the spread-out, individualistic life behind, trading it for close packed community. At home, I spend hours of my week driving alone in my car to work and to school and to church. Here, I go in to prison to volunteer two or three times a week by minibus and it's almost always jam packed. Last Friday, on the way into work, I messaged my friend to tell them that my bus had a sign all in caps at the front "CERTIFIED TO CARRY 11 SEATED PASSENGERS - 0 STANDING..." We blasted into the station, music blaring and people chatting...all fifteen seated passengers, and our standing conductor.

The mob of kids waiting for the food to be served.
There are some things that are uncomfortable about living so close together. I have never been inside my downstairs neighbor's flat, but I know they smoke in it because I can smell it through the floorboards in the front rooms. But this same neighbor knocked on the door last night to check if I was alright and to say hello because they had not seen me out and about in a few days. I am learning that many times, in order to really love someone, you have to be too close for comfort. You have to be willing to smell their dirt and sweat and get their snot and tears on your shirt as they cry on your shoulder, and when you do, you will wind up feeling just a little closer to Jesus, who said, "Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me." (Matt 25:40) But maybe not until you have had a nice hot shower and changed into some clean pajamas πŸ˜‰




This little girl is my next door neighbor. Her front door is mere feet from mine. She always wants to be involved, whether it is peeling carrots for soup, or taking photos with me. She is a talented, budding photographer and took the two following photos. She also helps give me the inside scoop on my neighborhood, telling me the names and relationships of those around us, and occasionally the secret truth of who likes who.

Auntie Charmaine and me, after feeding over two hundred.
With the height difference, my photographic student needs help to make us level
Also, I have started a fundraiser for Lavender Hill. I was moved to do this after Auntie Charmaine told me that she was planning to cut back from feeding the kids three times a week to just once because her money is running out. You can contribute here if you want to join in the work.

Prayer Requests:
  • Please pray for funding, whether through the fundraiser or other sources, praise that over $600 has already come in!
  • Pray for Auntie Charmaine to have wisdom in how to use the funds. There are so many needs around us it is a challenge to prioritize.
  • Pray for rest from the overstimulation. Being around foreign languages and barking dogs and shouting people and loud music all the time gets tiring. I am learning to take more breaks in nature. 
  • Pray for me to be useful. I am mostly learning here, but I also want to be a help and encouragement.

Friday, August 31, 2018

Life in a Township

This is not very long, and it is not a full picture, but it is what is currently on my heart. I am almost exactly seven days into my sixty-nine day stay in Lavender Hill, a township in Cape Town, South Africa. I have already been to the funeral of a man whose life was cut short by the gunshot of a gangster. His funeral is how I spent my very first morning here. The gangs have currently called a ceasefire in my area, so instead of gunfire I hear radios blasting American pop music, and children playing soccer (football), and dogs fighting. My home for the next two months is a busy place. So much life happening in a small place. Sadly also, so much tragedy. I have already met two mothers who sold their babies to infertile couples. Together, both mothers were given less than the cost of my plane ticket home. That is much of life in these types of spaces. The townships, projects, slums, and ghettos of the world. These places that leave their inhabitants undervalued, unappreciated, and unloved far too often. And so many of their inhabitants are beautiful, happy children.




 

They are full of life! They bubble over with curiosity and fun. They like soccer and chocolates. They easily recite the worldwide recipe for success: stay in school, go to university, get a good job, make lots of money, live the good life. They dream of visiting the United States of America, land of opportunity and Hollywood. Americans represent the good life to such a degree that one of the biggest street gangs is named The Americans. I learned last year that when someone was referred to as being "American", especially if the description ended with "...used to be an American." that it was far more likely that they were a South African gangster than that they were from the land of the free and brave.

To me, the true American dream is to work hard and thereby support your family, with enough left over for a little fun, and a little left over for helping your fellow man. I hope that the kids I am working with will be able to live that American dream without even leaving South Africa, and that they will not try out the counterfeit one offered by their uncles, classmates, and fathers with the eagle tattoos. I hope I can be a small piece in the work being done, with great love, to get them out of the repeating cycles of poverty, illiteracy, unemployment, and gangsterism that too many of their families are trapped in. I hope I do not have to go to their funerals.











P.S. All the photos are from Tuesday, when a couple of other ladies and I helped Auntie Charmaine make a pot of beef and bean stew for the kids.

Prayer Requests:
  • Praise God for the ceasefire and pray that it will continue. Where I grew up, we have snow days. Here they have shooting days, when school is closed and the children are forced to hide out inside.
  • Please pray that I can pick up more of the language quickly. Most have at least conversational English, but they prefer to speak Afrikaans.
  • Please pray that I will structure my days well. I have a lot of free time and am trying to discern the best ways to utilize it.

Wednesday, June 20, 2018

Going Back to South Africa! πŸ˜πŸ‡ΏπŸ‡¦

Hello Friends!

As you may already know, I am thrilled to be going back to South Africa this year. I will be going for almost three months! I am both excited and a little intimidated at the idea. It will be my longest time outside of the U.S. ever.

So happy to be returning to this beautiful place

Who am I working with? I will leave as one member of four from Park Street Church to help Hope Prison Ministry. We will serve alongside locals and expats. Park Street has two missionary families in Cape Town that I dearly look forward to being with, as well as many amazing staff and volunteers that I became friends with last year. I will also be working with Auntie Charmaine in Lavender Hill outreach.




What am I doing? Prison ministry and community outreach. The Park Street team and I will be spending two and a half intense weeks in prison ministry. We will be helping facilitate another Restorative Justice program at the same prison we served in last time. If you are unfamiliar with Restorative Justice, you can reference this post my team leader wrote about it. We will also be visiting other prisons for prayer walks, church services, Bible studies, and just to meet and chat with people.
During RJ last year, I look forward to catching up with them.

After that phase is over, the rest of my team will head back to the states, and I will move into Lavender Hill to live with Auntie Charmaine for the next two plus months. Lavender Hill is one of the most dangerous areas in South Africa, it is low income and the gangs have far too much influence. There I will be interning under Auntie Charmaine in her community outreach work. In the outreach, with support from others, Auntie Charmaine makes giant batches of food that feed hundreds, she teaches the kids praise music with dance routines, she encourages them to stay in school and clear of the gangs, she takes them to get haircuts and buy school supplies, and so much more. I will be doing what I can to help in the outreach, and soaking in what it means to live somewhere dangerous and broken and love those next to you.





Why am I doing it? Because I saw something powerful last time in the prisons that I want to see again. I saw a hardened gang leader enter class disrupting it with hand gestures to other gangsters and just with his overall aura of contempt and hardness. I also saw him sob in the arms of his mother at the end of the week apologizing for what he put her through. I saw him stand up in front of the guys declaring that he was done with the gang for good and that it was all built on lies. I want to see that again. I also want to see the four guys at my table again to see how they are doing a year after the program. I am working with Auntie Charmaine because I want to see and be part of helping create positive futures for a group of kids that are disadvantaged in many ways. I always had plenty to eat growing up, gangs were more of a joke than a threat to my safety, and my playground wasn't on top of glass covered asphalt. In short, I want to see lives changed. Lives of kids heading nowhere good, and lives of prisoners who have pasts to be dealt with.



When am I going? August to November. Getting our flights booked has proved a little challenging, but we should be flying out the second week of August and I will come back somewhere in the first week of November.

How can you help? With your prayers! By giving financially. By giving me your shoes. By being your encouraging supportive awesome selves!! Prayer requests will be bullet pointed at the bottom. You can give financially at Park Street Church by filling out an envelope designating your gift to South Africa STM - Tatiana Martin and dropping in the communion plate during a Sunday service or leaving it with the receptionist. You can also give online here, just make sure you select "STM South Africa" from the drop down list and put my name as the optional memo. I am still collecting used and new shoes to sell and raise money for Lavender Hill. I will have more information on that tomorrow, but please message me if this is a way you would like to help and want info on.

Cheers!
Tatiana

Prayer Requests:

  • That I will finish out my semester strong. I got a bit behind in homework this time and need to do some catch up in the next two weeks.
  • That I will make time to do some language learning and it will stick. I have a friend who connected me with a South African girl here nannying who is willing to meet and help me learn some Afrikaans!
  • That I will finish up everything that needs finishing and prepare everything that needs preparing. Three months away is a long time!
  • That signing up for online fall classes will go smoothly and I will get all the textbooks and materials I need. Doing college from South Africa is not a challenge I expected to take on, and I am still a bit intimidated at the thought.
  • That I would be in a good strong place before I go; spiritually, emotionally, physically, and mentally. Prison ministry was intense and I do not want to go in already burnt out.

Tuesday, November 21, 2017

My Favorite Soccer Team

So I am in Kenya...Surprise! I even talked my little sister into coming as my assistant. πŸ™‚ We are here to run a childcare program for preschoolers at an AIM retreat. The retreat has not started yet, so we have been using the last few days to prepare lessons and supplies, get over jet lag, and see a little of the country.

After getting in late Saturday night, we fell into a deep sleep pretty much as soon as we were horizontal. Church on Sunday was a lot of fun. The people were so friendly and there was loads of music, and they had the cutest little kids! However, as the service went on, I started to grow concerned at the lack of male leadership. The announcements, the morning prayer, and the blessing on the kids, were all done by women. Even the singing was led by three women, and there was not a lack of males in the building. Then a woman went up to preach the sermon, and said what an honor it was to be the speaker for women's Sunday and it all made sense.

After church, we headed back to our host missionary's house to prepare for Bible Club. Pretty soon after we got back the boys started arriving. They are all players on a local football/soccer team run by a local Christian coach. I was amazed at how well behaved and quiet they were.


They started by finishing a movie they were in the middle of while we helped Carolyn serve up a hearty lunch for them. Then we transitioned into a Bible trivia game called Zonk, which got them laughing and showing more of their personalities.

Picking out score numbers




Their coach is so impressive. He loves these kids and gives so much of himself to them. He works four jobs to afford an apartment where he hosts two teenagers full time and another one part time while they finish high school. Then after he gets off work, he coaches these boys for free. On top of that, on Sunday he brought along a three year old whose mother died that he helps care for some times. I could not get over how cute the little one looked sleeping on the coach as his stylish little mini me.



After the Bible trivia game, Carolyn taught a Bible lesson with an activity book for each kid to fill out.


The bigger boys know the answer, right?


The next day I got to visit Kibera where they live with the coach. I did not take any photos while we were walking around, but I got a few off the coaches forth floor balcony where he had hung out their new jerseys to dry.



More to follow soon...



Tuesday, August 1, 2017

A Sunday to Remember

The day started pretty early. We were picked up before eight in the morning, and after grabbing breakfast to eat in the car, we headed straight to church in one of the classrooms of a Christian school. There were at least two other churches meeting in different classrooms at the same time. I know this, because our neighbor church in the classroom on the right had very exuberant singing complete with energetic clapping and a cacophony of tambourines that pretty much drowned out our sedate prayers and quiet testimonies. When neither our closest neighbors, nor we were singing, I could sometimes hear songs from the service across the muddy courtyard. Mumbai is so over crowded that it has driven up rents and property values enormously. Many small churches cannot afford to have a place all week. There are plenty of buildings not in use on a Sunday that would suit, but most Hindu owners will not rent to a church. Hence the Christian school packed with meeting after meeting. When we finished our own service, the next church to use our classroom had congregants already lined up outside as we exited.

The pastor and our guide for the day is on the left



The evangelist brother we were with was proud to show us how he has raised up his church to be self sufficient. Most of the congregants came to faith because of his door to door evangelizing, track handouts, or open air preaching. He retains the title of pastor, but he pushes everyone in his congregation to do something. The band bring their own instruments from home, a group of women rotate who brings tea and snacks for after service, prayer time is led by one of the elders, the pastor told them he had no interest in even touching the money, so there is a small group that counts the offering and takes care of the required government financial reports. Finally, the pastor has trained the elders in the word and how to preach for when he is away, which is often. He is actually coming to the U.S. at the end of next month to preach and hold conferences. His goal is that if he were to die or move tomorrow, the church would be fine.


I used Proverbs 13:20 and 15:22 and Colossians 3:12-14 in my message
The older women tend to worship with heads covered while the younger tend to with uncovered heads.
Faye sharing about how God used a painful separation from home and the familiar in college to introduce her to a family who became highly influential in her life and faith.
The service was more simple and intimate than my church back home. Almost every member shared during prayer time, and "testimony" time. Communion, which happens every week at this church, started with tearing pieces off a little bun with candied fruit. Faye and I were given a time to share at the end. We both shared our testimonies, and I shared an encouragement for them to seek out positive friendships and mentors to help them grow in their Christian lives. We ended with tiny cups of chai tea and lots of photos.

They gave us flowers which touched me so deeply

Such a welcoming group of brothers and sisters!

Displaying Photo from Tati 🌎✈
They still tend to take serious Victorian style photos.

Once we finished morning worship we had a few hours to do some grocery shopping, eat lunch, and hear many stories of Pastor Othniel's travels. He has been to over twenty countries preaching and holding Christian conferences on a variety of topics, disciple making being his favorite and most common conference topic.


We get such yummy fresh fruit here

They do not have electronic scales at the road side shops


That finished, we went to visit a "rural" slum Sunday school. We picked our way carefully down a narrow alley tile slick with the monsoon rain beneath our feet. After climbing two oversized steps and depositing our shoes in the pile outside we enter a living room/bed room packed wall to wall with children. I instantly had the fascination of the older boys who whispered question after question in their charming sing song accents. "What is your name?" "Where are you from?" "Do you like India?"

Trying to remember the memory verse
"Do you like Indian food?"



The low key interrogation, which even delved into my opinion on wrestling, continued through the individual recitation of memory versus and all the way up to them walking out the door. The only time they took a question break was during singing and group prayer. Then we were on to the next group.

They were such hams!

Group two was reached by climbing a staircase steep enough to be a cross with a ladder and require going down backwards for safety. They were a much calmer group, but that may have just been because they had less English knowledge.

The younger/illiterate ones color while the ones who can read and write do a memory verse
Their head teachers
We taught them "He's got the whole world in His hands"


The street outside the center

Group three was the most remote group. We had to travel down a unpaved road that at one point was covered over with a river from the monsoon rains. I became a little worried that we were going to get stuck in our van, but our young man got us through safely. It was the same program for the third time of singing, Bible stories, memory versus, and prayers. Three different groups in three different places, but all needing what children everywhere need.



Reciting the Lord's Prayer


Our unstoppable driver


Finally we had a service in the same room sharing the Gospel with women and children from the surrounding slum.
The tail end of the river that ran across the road right before we got to the slum.

Closing meeting of the day.